"Exceptional, long-lasting relationships don’t come from mismatched efforts. It’s a support system. If one beam fails, the whole house could come crashing down. Be there for one another. Put in the effort. Love is work, but like a beautiful home it’s something to be very proud of."
“The True Meaning of Sleeping Together”
Nothing dirty. Nothing Naughty. Just sleeping. It’s just sleeping with that someone and knowing that they’re in your arms and you’re in theirs. They want to feel close to you. They want to know they are the closest to your heart. They want to hear you breathe when you fall asleep as they sleep next to you. As you fall asleep, you want to cuddle with that someone and just the hold them close. It’s that moment where you don’t want to let go and that moment where you don’t want them to forget that this is a special moment.
Moments like these..
|Dad:||all boys do is talk. its all bullshit that comes out of their mouth, they sweet talk and ramble on, they know what girls like to hear. me? i'm not like that christine. i hate sweet talking, i never do that. i'm a tough man. i'm nice, but i don't sweet talk. i don't talk much, but when i do, i never lie.
|Me:||yeah i hate boys like that dad, i never fall for sweet nothings. so if you were so tough, how did you get mom? how did mom see past that tough exterior?
|Dad:||because she feels me christine. she feels me. see eggs are tough on the outside. but inside, is liquid. sweet liquid. i'm sweet inside. mom saw that in me. she feels my heart. the egg is soft and gentle inside, but it needs a hard shell to protect it
|Me:||*smiles. so dad, don't you think falling in love is scary? i mean, you're basically giving someone else the power to destroy you and trusting them not to. its like they have your heart in their hands and at any moment then could just throw it away, doesn't it seem scary?
|Dad:||yeah it is, like i told you before, women love with their heart, and men love with their mind. you need to be smart and never forget yourself. you know i hate girls who always whine, "do you love me? i thought you said you loved me?.... that's so stupid! girls like that are so naive! a girl should NEVER ask a man that, because if a man truly loves you, you wouldn't even question it. it should already be obvious in his actions. don't fall in love with a man for his words, fall for his actions. they speak volumes